A man who is a silent lover?

My man is a silent lover…no grunts or loaded moans, just background noise. I can fondle him for hours, give him oral pleasure, ride him until I get a charlie horse in my left thigh…but still no noise of satisfaction. Once I gave him oral sex for 30 minutes (everytime he would attempt to ejaculate I would retreat), and FINALLY when it was time to peak, he just exploded with a heavy sigh of approval. I tried to get him to talk dirty, he claims he doesnt know what to say (NOTE: we watch pornos like children watch saturday cartoons). He is an awesome lover and he compliments me well. He is the first man that ever really brought that certain ‘i’ll do anything to please you’ ideal out of me, BUT I want DRAMA…PASSION…A Slight Whimper. We have talked about it, but still no dialogue, and it is starting to take a toll on my sexual kitten. I cant shout for the both of us, my throat will give out by the time I reach 28.

You need to accept him for who he is. If he is a quiet lover, then thats probably the way he will ALWAYS be. If there is some reason for him being that way then he may never change. But communication is the way to find out. If you have the “anything to please you” attitude, does he feel the same way about you? Maybe you 2 are not sexually compatible. Its up to you I guess if its worth tolerating or moving on. It depends on what else he gives to you and to the relationship.

What I Learned From A 5-Day Silent Retreat